I'm going to straight up call BS on that false equivalence; providing health care during a pregnancy that results from rape is not the same as allowing an abortion. It's forcing a victim to continue to be victimized and probably compounds the trauma by forcing the woman to carry a totally unwanted baby to term.
Big difference as well between being anti-abortion and pro-life; if you just care about protecting the fetus right up until it's born but don't want to do anything to support the mother/child after that, you're anti abortion. Pro-life is a cradle to grave position, and would include a focus on everything from child care, education, health care etc. Forcing someone to have a kid from a rape seems pretty brutal, and can't see that turning out well for either the mother or the kid.
O'Toole's vague promises to the socons has me pretty skeptical of his ability to keep the oil/water philosphies under the big tent together. On one hand, there are a bunch of "small c" conservatives who are socially progressive, and there is also the wing that wants to roll back social laws 30+ years. Those two aren't compatible, and personally can't support a party like that out of fear that they will throw some bones to the socons to keep the fragile alliance together.