BRAMPTON - John Bakai had hoped to be deployed to Afghanistan by now.
Instead, the suspended army reservist convicted of killing two fathers while driving the wrong way on Hwy. 403 has been sent off to serve a four year sentence in federal prison.
On his release, Bakai will also be prohibited from driving for another nine years.
There was no anger at the sentence handed down Friday — four years was proposed by both Crown and defence — but only tears from both sides, for there are only losers in such a senseless tragedy.
Gentle sobbing filled the courtroom as Justice Bruce Durno accepted Bakai’s “deep” remorse and his guilty plea as mitigating factors when considering the 27-year-old’s sentence for driving drunk and causing the deaths of Pablo Guzman and Herminio Del Valle.
Durno noted the horrible irony that Bakai failed to learn from his own family history: his two grandfathers were killed under similar circumstances in his native Romania.
And the judge had harsh words for the scourge that is impaired driving.
“Twenty-five years ago, the court of appeal noted that every drinking driver is a potential killer,” the judge said. “It’s not just a mistake, it’s not just an error in judgment.
“The danger created by a drunk driver’s conduct is not unlike that of a drunken man walking down the street firing a handgun.”
On May 2, 2008, Bakai was stopped for impaired driving on the QEW and issued a warning and a 12-hour driving suspension.
But he’d obviously not learned his lesson.
On Sept. 11, the master corporal in the Lorne Scot Regiment drove his own vehicle to the Brampton armoury — rather than taking the bus rented for the occasion — to continue celebrating a change-of-command ceremony that had begun in Georgetown.
Witnesses saw the Burlington man consume three beers and then a “boot” that contained three more. He was so drunk that he was told by two people to sleep it off at the armoury.
“He clearly ignored the advice,” Durno noted.
At 4:30 a.m. Guzman, 48, of Woodbridge and his best friend Del Valle, 44, of Toronto were on their way to work when Bakai’s pickup truck inexplicably made a U-turn on Hwy. 403 and slammed head on into their Toyota Corolla.
The car burst into flames and neither man could be extricated. Guzman left behind three children, Del Valle, two daughters and a step-daughter.
“Two families have been devastated by John Bakai’s criminal conduct,” Durno said.
Both immigrants from the Dominican Republic, the two friends were the sole breadwinners in their families.
Six victim impact statements were filed with the court, including several heartwrenching pictures drawn by the fatherless children. Six-year-old Santiago Guzman drew a car with his father in it. His brother Victor, 10, drew his dad’s gravestone, and the dark clouds above it.
So is four years enough for the taking of two lives? Considering recent cases, it’s actually considered a stiff sentence for a first-time offender.
And at least he seems to understand the devastation he has wrought.
The haunted man stood before the tearful widows and their children and tried his best to apologize for tearing their world apart.
“I don’t seem to have the words to express how deeply sorry I feel,” Bakai said, his voice shaking. “I acknowledge fully how painful it must be for the families...I accept full responsibility for my actions for this tragedy.”
Bakai told the court he’s sought counselling, abstains from alcohol and speaks to youth groups about the dangers of drinking and driving.
“This experience has been and will always continue to be the hardest lesson of my life,” he said.
To their enormous credit, despite their sorrow and their pain, they appear willing to forgive.
“We are Christians,” explained Pastor Hector Del Valle, Herminio’s older brother, “and especially because he has apologized.”
And yet it all could not have come on a more difficult day, he said. Friday is the day both men were killed, and Sept. 24 would have been his brother’s 47th birthday.